February 24, 2019
Do You “Musturbate” or “Should” on Yourself?
Musturbation was coined by the late Albert Ellis, who developed REBT.
If you suffer from this malady, you have a relentless voice that lives in your brain, ruling your mind and life, bludgeoning you with oppressive words such as must, should, ought, and have to: “I must win that contract”; “I have to get that promotion”; “I should be a better person”; “People must do as I say”; “Others must see my point of view”; “I should have done better on that project”; “Life must be easier than this.”